Went out into the blustery MN January weather Saturday night with Heidi. We went to Chatterbox in S. Minneapolis to meet some coworker friends of hers. . .
Good time - I hadn't been there since before Melanie went to Thailand - so at least 3 years! It was as I remember it - but without the smoke. Instead of my clothes and hair reaking of smoke the next day - it was deep-fried-greasy smell! :)
So - one of Heidi's coworkers was totally hot - like totally "my type" . . . of course - none of this was discussed until we were in the safety of Heidi's car - headed home. . . .
Turns out this guy is one Heidi had thought would be a good "set up" for me. . . . cool huh?
Heidi (and I guess most of you??) had to work today - and mentioned to said coworker (we can call him "Mario" - as that was the video game he played the entire night. Yup, entire night) . . so Heidi mentioned to Mario that I thought he was a nice guy - and would he be interested in meeting me/going out/whatever she proposed. . .
His answer. . . "I need to think about it . . ."
Uhhh. . this is why I'm single. What?? You need to think about what? On whether or not you cand stand to drink a beer/coffee/eat a dinner across from me for like an hour or two?? I don't know - I'm trying to play devil's advocate - and like what if Heidi came to me and said that the balding-dorkus-across the table from me was interested - and would I want to go out with him sometime? Yeah - I probably would just say "no." Not "think about it and then say no. .. or never bring up again". ..
God - men suck. More specifically - dating sucks.
UGHHHHH
(OK - so NOT dating sucks even worse!)
3 comments:
Hon, *HUG*
That sucks! :P Who needs him! :) "I have to think about it!?" *rolls eyes!*
I'll reply to this...after I think about it for a while.
ok - so DON"T TAKE IT PERSONALLY. You have no idea why he said he needed to think about it. Maybe his last break up was bad - maybe he has almost no dating experience. You thought he was nice - Heidi thinks he is nice so it could be any number of reasons. He didn't say no, so at least he isn't repulsed by you :) He also has turned down offers from people to set him up before.
My point is - don't wait around but if he calls or says he'd like to meet don't say no just bcuz he wanted to think about it.
It's not you - it's him
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